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Separating Couples Mediation

Separating couples mediation is a process designed to help couples navigate the complexities of separation or divorce in a constructive and amicable manner. Here’s an overview of how it typically works:

Voluntary Participation: Couples voluntarily choose to engage in mediation as an alternative to going to court to resolve their disputes. It’s a confidential and collaborative process aimed at reaching mutually acceptable agreements.

Neutral Mediator: A trained and impartial mediator facilitates the mediation sessions. The mediator does not take sides or make decisions for the couple but helps facilitate communication and negotiation between them.

Identifying Issues: The mediator assists the couple in identifying and prioritizing the issues that need to be addressed, such as child custody and access arrangements, division of assets and finances, and any other relevant matters.

Open Communication: During mediation sessions, the mediator fosters open and respectful communication between the couple. They encourage each party to express their concerns, interests, and preferences while ensuring that both parties have an opportunity to be heard.

Exploring Options: The mediator helps the couple explore different options and solutions to resolve their disputes. They may provide information about legal rights and obligations but do not provide legal advice.

Negotiation and Agreement: Through a process of negotiation facilitated by the mediator, the couple works together to reach agreements on the various issues. These agreements are documented in a mediated agreement.

Legal Review and Implementation: Once the couple has reached agreements through mediation, they may choose to have their mediated agreement reviewed by their respective legal advisors and/or financial advisors before signing. Once signed, the agreement can be submitted to the court for approval, making it legally enforceable.

Child-Centered Approach: In cases involving children, the best interests of the children are prioritized throughout the mediation process. The mediator helps the couple develop parenting plans that consider the needs and welfare of their children.  In some circumstances the parents may opt to include the children in the mediation process through child inclusive mediation. 

Overall, separating couples mediation in Ireland provides a structured and supportive framework for couples to navigate the challenges of separation or divorce in a more collaborative and less adversarial manner. It empowers couples to make informed decisions about their future while minimizing conflict and emotional distress.